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Navigating the Decision to Divorce in a Christian Marriage
Morning friend, We had an amazing turn out for our webinar, Is He Really Changing or Just Pretending? I hope you downloaded your workbook and have been thinking about the questions I provided to help you discern change from pretense. We opened our doors to CONQUER, and they will remain open until Friday, October 17. If CONQUER is something you’ve…
Picking Up the Pieces: Healing After Divorce and the God Who Makes All Things New.
Last month, I shared with you that I was heading to Alaska and asked for your prayers as I stepped into what I hoped would be a time of rest, renewal, and adventure. Thank you, truly, for holding me in prayer. The trip was beautiful, breathtaking, and full of moments that reminded me how small I am and how big…
Is This All There Is? Unpacking Emotional Neglect in Marriage
Hello Friends! October has arrived, with its golden leaves and crisp air, reminding us that change is not only natural but at times necessary. The harvest season paints a picture of both beauty and release, as trees let go of what can no longer serve them and bountiful harvests make way for next year’s fertile soil. For many Christian women…
6 Months Separated from My Middle School Sweetheart
Morning friend, I am heading to Nashville to speak at the American Association of Christian Counselors Wednesday and Thursday. I’d really appreciate your prayers. More than ever, the church and Christian counselors need to wake up to the abuse of power, become better equipped to identify destructive relationship dynamics, and understand what it takes to heal broken relationships. In two…
How Do I Meet His Needs When I Feel Empty?
Morning friend Well, we’ve moved back to Surprise, and I can’t find anything in my house and it’s hot here. I will miss my Prescott place, but I’m heading to Nashville next week for the American Association of Christian Counselors there and have things to do to prepare. If you’re attending, please be sure to stop me and stay hi,…
Godly Separation: Navigating Finances, Fear, and a Failing Marriage
Happy September, Friends! September has always felt like a month in between, where one thing ends, but the next hasn’t fully begun. The air turns cooler, the days grow shorter, and everything seems to be slowly loosening its grip on summer. I feel that same shift in my spirit lately: a quiet separation from something familiar, but the picture of…
Reconnecting After 30 Years: Steps to Rekindle Romance in Your Marriage
Greetings friends and welcome to a sacred September, How are you? Yes, you? I see you, and I am honored to know you here in this space. The week of this writing, I’m packing my bags with layers, scarves, and just enough healthy hope to meet the unexpected. This Alaskan cruise isn’t unfolding the way I once imagined. I have…
Covenant Marriage Question
Morning friend, It’s been a busy week. I’ve been pondering the idea of rest. What does that word mean to you? God tells us to take a weekly Sabbath rest. What do you do to rest? How do you break from your “normal” routine and let your body, mind and spirit remind, renew, refresh, reset? I’d love to hear your…