Finances

Godly Separation: Navigating Finances, Fear, and a Failing Marriage

By Susan King | September 10, 2025 |

Happy September, Friends! September has always felt like a month in between, where one thing ends, but the next hasn’t fully begun. The air turns cooler, the days grow shorter, and everything seems to be slowly loosening its grip on summer. I feel that same shift in my spirit lately: a quiet separation from something familiar, but the picture of…

Does Requiring Disclosure Mean I’m Controlling?

By Leslie Vernick | October 30, 2024 |

Morning friend, Whew, we just finished our live/virtual CONQUER conference in Scottsdale and it was amazing. The Holy Spirit was present and the women grew in Resilience. I am so honored to lead this wonderful group of women. Thanks for your prayers for the event. They are deeply appreciated. Question: Is it abusive for me to require my husband to…

What If Every Conversation Was Not a Fight?

By LeAnne Parsons | May 8, 2024 |

Hello, my dear sisters in faith, Ah, spring! There’s something truly rejuvenating about this time of year, isn’t there? As the earth reawakens, blanketing our surroundings in vibrant colors and lively sounds, it naturally invites us to do some rejuvenating of our own—not just in our homes but in our financial lives as well. It’s the perfect time to dust…

Am I Selfish for Stopping My Enabling Behaviors?

By Leslie Vernick | March 8, 2023 |

Morning friend, Next week I’m going to Paris with my granddaughter for her 13th birthday. Each of my granddaughters get to pick where they would like to go for this special milestone. I thought we’d better do this at 13 years old instead of 18 because by 18 they may not want to hang out with their grandparents for a…

I’m Stuck. How Do I Help Him See His Problem Instead of Blaming Me?

By Leslie Vernick | February 1, 2023 |

Morning friend, I’ve been reading through Proverbs in the month of January. One chapter a day for 31 days. If you’ve never done that, I highly encourage you to try it. If you’re confused, and need wisdom for your life, especially when dealing with destructive individuals read it each day with these three categories of people in mind, and ask…

He Doesn’t Hit Me, Is It Still Abuse?

By Leslie Vernick | March 2, 2022 |

Morning friend, I’m scared. The world has turned upside down over the past week just as we thought things were returning to normal. What do we do with our body when it’s still shaking after watching the news? Or our mind when we see pictures of children dying and mothers fleeing their homes with littles in tow? Or our emotions…

Is It Wrong To Go To Court?

By Leslie Vernick | February 23, 2022 |

Morning friend, Thanks for all your support for one another on this site. This next question does not have a one size fits all answer. But I thought I’d address it because many of you will face similar situations. How do you deal with injustice? Do you keep fighting or let it go, especially when letting it go costs you? …

Forgiving Doesn’t Erase Consequences

By Leslie Vernick | January 26, 2022 |

Morning friend,  We’ve had quite a robust and controversial discussion on forgiveness on my FB page. Is forgiveness Biblically required when someone isn’t sorry? Does God command it even if someone isn’t repentant? Do we have to clean up our sin before God forgives us?  If we don’t forgive, is our spiritual life impacted? And is God’s forgiveness of us…