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Am I Selfish for Stopping My Enabling Behaviors?

By Leslie Vernick | March 8, 2023 |

Morning friend, Next week I’m going to Paris with my granddaughter for her 13th birthday. Each of my granddaughters get to pick where they would like to go for this special milestone. I thought we’d better do this at 13 years old instead of 18 because by 18 they may not want to hang out with their grandparents for a…

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I’m Stuck. How Do I Help Him See His Problem Instead of Blaming Me?

By Leslie Vernick | February 1, 2023 |

Morning friend, I’ve been reading through Proverbs in the month of January. One chapter a day for 31 days. If you’ve never done that, I highly encourage you to try it. If you’re confused, and need wisdom for your life, especially when dealing with destructive individuals read it each day with these three categories of people in mind, and ask…

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He Doesn’t Hit Me, Is It Still Abuse?

By Leslie Vernick | March 2, 2022 |

Morning friend, I’m scared. The world has turned upside down over the past week just as we thought things were returning to normal. What do we do with our body when it’s still shaking after watching the news? Or our mind when we see pictures of children dying and mothers fleeing their homes with littles in tow? Or our emotions…

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Is It Wrong To Go To Court?

By Leslie Vernick | February 23, 2022 |

Morning friend, Thanks for all your support for one another on this site. This next question does not have a one size fits all answer. But I thought I’d address it because many of you will face similar situations. How do you deal with injustice? Do you keep fighting or let it go, especially when letting it go costs you? …

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Forgiving Doesn’t Erase Consequences

By Leslie Vernick | January 26, 2022 |

Morning friend,  We’ve had quite a robust and controversial discussion on forgiveness on my FB page. Is forgiveness Biblically required when someone isn’t sorry? Does God command it even if someone isn’t repentant? Do we have to clean up our sin before God forgives us?  If we don’t forgive, is our spiritual life impacted? And is God’s forgiveness of us…

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Where Can I Find Cheap Legal Help

By Leslie Vernick | March 24, 2021 |

Morning friend, I am thrilled that so many people helpers watched the webinar that Chris Moles and I did regarding the 3 milestones you must master to work competently with those in destructive relationships.  We had a lot of positive feedback and was very encouraged that there are people helpers who are wanting to learn more. Today’s Question:  I have…

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Is Hiring An Attorney Fighting?

By Leslie Vernick | January 1, 2020 |

Happy New Year Friends,   We are not just in a New Year, but a new decade. And, it’s always a perfect time for some reflection about where you’ve been and some thought about where you’re going? The psalmist reminds us to “Teach me to number my days, O Lord, so that I might present to you a heart of wisdom.”…

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My Husband Wants To Reconcile, But I Don’t Trust Him

By Leslie Vernick & Co. | March 27, 2019 |

Morning friends, Well, I finally have a new puppy. Meet Addison, Addie for short. Someone from this blog actually told me about a breeder who had puppies, Dallas Labradoodles, and Addie is amazing, but a ton of work. I forgot what it’s like to have a new puppy. It’s just like having a baby except you can put it in…

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