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Are My Boundaries Selfish

By Leslie Vernick | August 17, 2022 |

Morning friend, We’ve been having a good discussion on last week’s topic about boundaries and being accused of being controlling.  One of our readers posted this additional question to last week’s topic: PS: Our free webinar is this Thursday, August 18 at noon ET and at 7:30 pm ET. If you haven’t registered yet, click here.  Question: Leslie, you say…

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How Do I Apply CORE Strength To Justify Boundaries?

By Leslie Vernick | August 10, 2022 |

Morning friend, My 92-year-old father just left. It was wonderful having him visit us here in Arizona. It reminds me of the legacy we leave to those who have watched us live our lives. My dad is not a perfect person, but he’s consistently lived out his godly values. My grandchildren, his great-grandchildren have gotten to know him better this…

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How Do We Co-Parent When He Won’t Decide?

By Leslie Vernick | July 13, 2022 |

It’s the second week of July – my sabbatical month and I am really enjoying the break. I’m back to painting, which I really enjoy, reading, and taking long morning walks (before it gets too hot to go outside). All these things feed my soul which fires up my creativity.  One of my coaches, Susan, will answer this week’s blog…

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How Do I Talk to My Husband About His Porn Use?

By Leslie Vernick | May 25, 2022 |

Morning friend, I am currently traveling for both business and a bucket list trip to Israel. Instead of stressing out trying to write answers to three questions before I left, I thought I’d try something new. In some of my private webinar teaching, I’ve done a Q & A at the end. I’ve chosen a few questions that I thought…

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My Husband Stopped Using Porn But Isn’t Better. What’s Next?

By Leslie Vernick | December 8, 2021 |

Morning friend, We had our big workshop yesterday on the Three Shifts You Need to Make to Move From Victim Mindset to Owner Mindset. I hope you got to watch it. We had a lot of positive comments and good questions. Our six-month group coaching program Empowered To Change has just opened. For more information go to www.leslievernick.com/change. Question: My…

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Is Pornography Considered Adultery?

By Leslie Vernick | October 20, 2021 |

Morning friend, I will be speaking at the Lighthouse Christian Church on October 23rd. If you’re local, come join me. I’d love to meet you. We’re talking about recognizing healthy and toxic relationships and how to heal from destructive ones. Today’s Question: Is viewing pornography and or masturbation biblical grounds for divorce?  My husband and I reached out to a couple that are…

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What Repairs Are Necessary To Fix My Marriage?

By Leslie Vernick | September 29, 2021 |

Hey Friend, Sorry this is a little late in the day, but had a huge online free workshop today and got a little bit behind. Prayers appreciated as we’re all feeling a little sick at my house too which doesn’t help the energy levels. The doors to CONQUER are open starting today, 9/29 and close October 8. If you’ve been…

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What Are The Definitions For Divorce?

By Leslie Vernick | August 18, 2021 |

Morning friend, I’m in Chicago. Appreciate your prayers for my step-mom. She is lucid and we’re grateful for the time we have to say our goodbyes and love on her. On another note, Lord willing I will be doing a live webinar (from Chicago) Thursday at Noon ET and 7:30 PM ET, on Four Lies That Christian Women Believe That…

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A Courageous Woman Refused To Submit

By Leslie Vernick | August 11, 2021 |

Morning friend, Prayers appreciated for my family. My step-mom is in the final days or weeks of her life and it’s been hard. Pray that she is taken home to heaven with a minimal of suffering and discomfort and comfort for my father who will deeply miss her. Instead of our normal question and answer format, today in light of…

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