Repentance

When Apologies Fall Short: What Real Repair Looks Like

By Diana Bala | May 13, 2026 |

Good morning, Friend, Have you ever been hurt by someone, only for them to expect you to move forward as if nothing happened? Most of us know that ache. It’s the apology that never comes—the painful moment that gets brushed aside—leaving you wondering if it will happen again. When there’s no honest repair, trust can’t be rebuilt, and the wound…

I’m Sorry. How Can I Help My Wife Heal from All I’ve Done?

By Leslie Vernick | November 19, 2025 |

Morning friend, I returned safe and sound from Portugal. Thank you for your prayers. As we enter a season of Thanksgiving, I want to remind you of an important verse. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, “Give thanks IN all things.” This is a hard discipline to practice. Notice it doesn’t say give thanks FOR all things. That would be impossible. But…

Can Letting Him Go Be God’s Best?

By Leslie Vernick | July 31, 2024 |

Morning friend, Thanks for sharing your thoughts about the Kingdom of God. Here are some things I’ve been pondering. As I discern, I see the Kingdom of God consisting of unconditional love, truth, beauty, and justice. Like fireflies of warm summer nights, these elements shine heavenly light in dark places. Like a little yeast that permeates the whole loaf. Or…

The Difference Between Letting Go And Giving Up

By Leslie Vernick | June 22, 2022 |

Morning friend, I just finished answering a survey from a college student on what beliefs keep Christian women stuck in destructive/abusive marriages. I’d love for you to give your input on what beliefs have kept you stuck. Here’s one common belief I’ve found. “If I give up hope for my husband to change, I’m giving up on God.” Is this…

What Do I Do When Someone Keeps Bringing Up My Sins?

By Leslie Vernick | December 1, 2021 |

Morning friend, Have you been practicing gratitude this week? I hope so. It’s a game-changer when you faithfully practice it. Studies show that we all have limited attention. Watch this video to see an example of what you can miss and not even know it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGQmdoK_ZfY  We don’t see everything, even when it’s obvious or right in front of our…

How Much Should I Forbear

By Leslie Vernick | April 21, 2021 |

Morning friends, Do you ever read the Bible and “see” a new verse in there?  One that you’ve never seen before even though you’ve read it from cover to cover several times? I love that about God’s word. It’s living and active. It comes alive in different places in new ways each time we read it. The verse that popped…

Is My Hope Realistic?

By Leslie Vernick | December 23, 2020 |

Morning friends, For me, Christmas is the season for quiet.  For stillness. For reflection on the reality of “Emmanuel, God with us” Pray for me that I would know that God is in this place. So many places the Bible reminds us that the person didn’t realize that God was present when he was. How would your life be different…

Using Words Not Anger To Have Good Boundaries

By Leslie Vernick | June 24, 2020 |

Morning friends, I’m in a hotel room in California this week, working hard to put my book The Emotionally Destructive Relationship in audiobooks. I’d appreciate your prayers. Reading an entire book into a tape recorder is not as easy as it sounds, and there are lots of mistakes and do-overs, even when you’re the one who wrote the book. But…

My Trust Is Shattered, Now What?

By Leslie Vernick | September 25, 2019 |

Morning friends, I so appreciate this community and each of you. I hope we can meet someday. If any of you are attending the ERCL Conference in Dallas next week please let me know. A group of women are getting together for lunch on Saturday after the conference is over and would love for you to be included.   October is…