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Am I A Fool To Try Again?

By Leslie Vernick | August 23, 2023 |

Morning friend, We had a great turn out last week for our webinar. Our Walking in Core Strength Group Coaching program is now open. If you want to work on yourself, to grow healthier and stronger, check it out.  Today’s Question:  I discovered my husband’s 8-month affair 1 1/2 years ago. We separated for 3 months and then I took…

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I Need Tools To Not React

By Leslie Vernick | May 3, 2023 |

Morning friend, I’m so thankful for this community. I love how you are interacting with one another, encouraging, supporting, and helping. We cannot do life all alone, and we do grow stronger together. Question: My husband is such a cunning man. He goes out of his way to portray me as a bad mom and that he’s the one taking…

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Rebuilding A Broken Life

By Leslie Vernick | April 26, 2023 |

Morning friend, We had an amazing response to joining our CONQUER membership. It makes me sad that there are so many Christian women struggling in destructive and abusive marriages and glad that they have found a place to get solid, biblical information in a loving community to help them wisely navigate through their pain and their next steps forward. Thanks…

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Stay Well

By Susan King | November 16, 2022 |

Hello, Friends!  We are approaching the holiday season! I can imagine it will be an extra stressful time for the many who have destructive people in their lives. My heart goes out to you as you navigate through challenges while still trying to enjoy some holiday cheer.  I invite you to take some time to set your intentions as you…

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What’s The Difference Between A Personal Problem And A Marriage Issue?

By Leslie Vernick | September 2, 2020 |

Morning friends, In preparing for my free webinar next Thursday (September 10th) on How Long do you Keep Trying and How do You know the Change Is Real? (Sign up here), I received a question from a subscriber who asked what’s the difference between a marriage problem and a personal sin problem?   Answer: His question may have come from my…

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Is He Manipulating Me?

By Leslie Vernick | July 15, 2020 |

  Morning friends, I’ve got a question for all of you. What book, or television series or movie have you watched or read during this COVID isolation time that you loved? I’m reading a few right now. We watched Anne with an E (Anne of Green Gables) Netflix series – excellent – we all loved it. Little Women TV series…

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What Can I Do To Save My Marriage?

By Leslie Vernick | March 25, 2020 |

Morning friends,   Thanks for all your kind responses last week. Most of us have some trouble creating a new normal to our daily routines and rhythms. This is expected during the crisis, but our body and mind feel it. You may feel disoriented, disorganized, and distracted. It’s hard to focus. It’s challenging to get things done. Uncertainty reigns and we’re…

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Am I Wrong For Not Reconciling?

By Leslie Vernick | May 8, 2019 |

Morning friends, We’ve had a lively discussion on verbal abuse. It never ceases to surprise me how relevant God’s word is to today’s problems. We can’t ignore God’s principles for healthy relationships and expect to reap great connection and loving community, including marriage. Sadly destructive individuals somehow believe that if they say loving things, or say they are sorry, all…

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My Husband Is Delusional And Controlling But I Want To Save My Marriage

By Leslie Vernick | December 27, 2017 |

Morning friend, I hope you had a wonderful day celebrating Jesus. I know holidays can be hard for many people, especially when marital relationships and family dynamics are tense or broken. But even if that’s you right now, can you take a bit of space this week just focusing on your relationship with God? Not with your spouse or your…

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