Adultery

When He Seems Happy and I’m Not: Healing After Betrayal Without Losing Yourself

By Susan King | February 11, 2026 |

Hello, LV&Co friends! The holidays are packed away, the house exhales, and the noise of togetherness gives way to quiet evenings and early mornings. This time of year has a way of highlighting the stillness, the cold, the things that have gone dormant and no longer burst with colorful energy. In West Michigan, there has been a fair amount of…

How Do I Accept He Won’t Be Honest?

By Leslie Vernick | January 22, 2025 |

Morning friend, If you live near the Phoenix, AZ area, I’d encourage you to attend the Restore Conference, February 7,8,9. It’s going to be amazing teaching, especially around spiritual and religious abuse. If you attend, please come up and say hi. I’d love to meet you. Question: Please help me figure this out. I am so confused, and my husband…

Happy Endings And Marriage Vows

By Susan King | January 15, 2025 |

Happy New Year! January is a time for new beginnings. Maybe you have defined some goals for yourself. Or perhaps like me, you have chosen a word for the year and have invited God to speak into your life in ways you may not expect. Intentionality is important in order to achieve true success. Starting off the year with a…

Isn’t Reconciliation God’s Will?

By Leslie Vernick | September 25, 2024 |

Morning friend, Today is webinar day, and it’s been full on preparing and practicing. In light of that and last week’s blog about the struggle around forgiveness and reconciliation, I thought I would repost a previous blog question from a husband who struggled to understand why reconciliation wouldn’t be best, especially if he is truly repentant. If you can relate…

Would I Be a Fool to Reconcile?

By Leslie Vernick | May 22, 2024 |

Morning friend, we are going to start an amazing weeklong coaching challenge in June. It’s called Moving Beyond Insecurity. I’ve struggled with insecurity and honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who didn’t. What does it take to move beyond it and grow into a secure, strong woman who stops comparing herself to others? Who is able to…

Does Time Heal All Wounds?

By Susan King | March 20, 2024 |

Hello, friends! March is a time for renewal and rebirth. At the end of the month, Christians across the world will be celebrating the resurrection of Jesus Christ. It is a wonderful season to think about the life, mission, and journey of our Savior. Though it was foretold even before His birth, Isaiah 53:5 comes to mind; “But He was…

Do I Trust Him Again? He’s Doing Everything Right

By Leslie Vernick | October 18, 2023 |

Morning friend, Whew, we just finished our CONQUER membership invite for this season. The doors are closed for now, and we are all about welcoming and loving on our new members. I’m heading off to Haven House to partner with Lysa Terkeurst for her 3-day intensive retreat. It’s an honor to be part of her team there as our population…

Am I A Fool To Try Again?

By Leslie Vernick | August 23, 2023 |

Morning friend, We had a great turn out last week for our webinar. Our Walking in Core Strength Group Coaching program is now open. If you want to work on yourself, to grow healthier and stronger, check it out.  Today’s Question:  I discovered my husband’s 8-month affair 1 1/2 years ago. We separated for 3 months and then I took…

You Do Have Choices

By Leslie Vernick | August 24, 2022 |

Morning friends, I have an exciting announcement. After almost a year in the works, it’s DONE. We have a brand-new website and I’m anxious for you to hop over and have a look. It’s still at leslievernick.com but is fresher, easier to navigate, and totally updated.  Since we are filling up our current classes quickly, we also opened some new…