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How Do I Talk to My Husband About His Porn Use?

By Leslie Vernick | May 25, 2022 |

Morning friend, I am currently traveling for both business and a bucket list trip to Israel. Instead of stressing out trying to write answers to three questions before I left, I thought I’d try something new. In some of my private webinar teaching, I’ve done a Q & A at the end. I’ve chosen a few questions that I thought…

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My Trust Is Shattered, Now What?

By Leslie Vernick | September 25, 2019 |

Morning friends, I so appreciate this community and each of you. I hope we can meet someday. If any of you are attending the ERCL Conference in Dallas next week please let me know. A group of women are getting together for lunch on Saturday after the conference is over and would love for you to be included.   October is…

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How To Manage My Emotions After Disclosure Of Porn

By Leslie Vernick | June 26, 2019 |

Morning friends, We are having amazing wonderful weather at our cabin in Pinetop. You’d never know that this was Arizona. It’s still about 80 degrees during the day and 55-60 degrees in the evening. Perfect. I feel bad for my friends still in pizza oven hot temperatures in Sun City West.  If you have trouble with people pleasing, please check…

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Do I Have To Laugh At My Husband’s Jokes?

By Leslie Vernick | August 22, 2018 |

Morning friends, So good to be home. I love sleeping on my own pillow and in my own bed. Showering in my own shower. Eating my regular food. Simple pleasures but much appreciated after almost 6 weeks away. I’m so glad you’ve enjoyed our sisters sharing their stories on my blog and I hope to do more of these in…

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What Do I Do With My Husbands Porn Habit

By Leslie Vernick | April 12, 2017 |

Morning friends, Could you all do me a favor? I want to do a webinar or e-book or similar on The Lies in Christian Marriages That Lead to Crazy Making. Here are a few examples: The man always has the final say because he’s the head Unconditional love means unconditional relationship Forgiving means forgetting and putting the past behind you…

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Sexual Abuse In Marriage – A Real Life Experience

By Leslie Vernick | March 25, 2015 |

Morning Friends, This is my last week in California and I will be heading home the 31st. I will miss this beautiful state and my sweet grandkids, but I’m ready to get back into my own home. From time to time I hear stories from women (and men) who would like to share their experience on this blog. I’ve invited…

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Am I Wrong To Consider Porn Adultery?

By Leslie Vernick | December 17, 2014 |

Morning friends, Are you merciful towards yourself? I bet even if you’re merciful towards others, you are hard on yourself – constantly beating yourself up for your shortcomings, flaws, mistakes, and failures. Being merciful towards yourself (or others for that matter) doesn’t mean you are self-indulgent or enabling of sinful behaviors and attitudes. But it does mean that you understand…

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He’s Sorry Now. Do I Wait?

By Leslie Vernick & Co. | September 24, 2014 |

Morning friends, We had a great response to the live webinar last week with attorney Maryann Modesti.  It can be tough to navigate through the legal issues and our system is not always just or fair but it helps to know what you are up against if you decide you must separate or file for divorce.  Here’s the link if…

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How Do I Get Over Him?

By Leslie Vernick & Co. | March 26, 2014 |

Morning friends, I just returned from California, visiting my daughter’s family and being Nana to 3 adorable little girls.  There is nothing better than being a grandma.  My oldest granddaughter Amaya celebrated her 4th birthday. The RBC (Radio Bible Class – Daily Bread) webinar that deals with Shepherding an Emotionally Destructive Marriage, will be offered on April 2.  This webinar…

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