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How Do I Center Myself in God?

By Leslie Vernick | September 20, 2023 |

Hi friend,  I’m traveling for two weeks to Nashville for the AACC conference, Canada, and then Chicago. I’m having some computer problems (and you know me and tech), so couldn’t write a new blog for this week.  But a chronic problem in growing our spiritual life and our emotional and mental health is the lies we’ve been told, especially about…

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Navigating the Path of Confronting Emotional Abuse: A Gentle and Solid Approach

By LeAnne Parsons | September 13, 2023 |

In this journey of life, we often find ourselves in situations and seasons that call for supernatural courage, wisdom, and grace. My summer has been one just like this. September is a beautiful month to reflect and remember the goodness of God in our day-to-day lives.  Reminding ourselves how much God sees, knows, and feels for His children is a…

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What Does it Mean to Respect Your Husband?

By Susan King | September 6, 2023 |

Good morning, Friends! September is always a busy month! I hope you are getting ready for all that Autumn brings. Today’s question is short but one that I think deserves attention and discussion. I know I am not the only one who has contemplated the practical application and meaning of the word respect. Join in a discussion if you have…

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Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship

By Leslie Vernick | August 30, 2023 |

Morning friend, I hope by now you’ve had a chance to watch the movie Women Talking. It is an important movie about a group of women thinking through the question, “How are we going to respond to the abuse, injustice, deceit, and oppression we’ve all experienced.” Many of you have also watched the documentary Shiny Happy People, which is a…

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Am I A Fool To Try Again?

By Leslie Vernick | August 23, 2023 |

Morning friend, We had a great turn out last week for our webinar. Our Walking in Core Strength Group Coaching program is now open. If you want to work on yourself, to grow healthier and stronger, check it out.  Today’s Question:  I discovered my husband’s 8-month affair 1 1/2 years ago. We separated for 3 months and then I took…

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Am I Being Equally Deceptive?

By Leslie Vernick | August 16, 2023 |

Morning friend, Thursday, August 17, I’m giving a free webinar: I’m not Okay when You’re Not Okay: Defining My Problem, Your Problem and Our Problem. If you are getting frustrated or feeling stuck because “his problem” is not changing and it’s continuing to impact you in negative ways, it’s time for you to change directions. It’s time to stop trying…

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How Do I Heal from the Guilt and Shame of My Verbal Abuse?

By Susan King | August 2, 2023 |

Hello, LV&Co friends! Susan here to contribute for the team; I am delighted to address this week’s blog question. As the thunder rolls on this midwestern summer day, I am reminded of what it took to create this type of weather. From my high school days, I recall there are three ingredients necessary to create a thunderstorm. Moisture, unstable air,…

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How Do I Stay Well When He’s Causing Harm?

By Leslie Vernick | July 26, 2023 |

I watched a movie this weekend that was so powerful I watched it again the next day to take notes. It’s called Women Talking. It’s based on a book by the same title by Miriam Toews, a true story about a community of Mennonite women and children who were sexually abused over a period of years. Their male leaders told…

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Does Understanding The Enneagram Help With Marriage Problems?

By Leslie Vernick | July 19, 2023 |

Morning friend, Last time I wrote, I said I’d send pictures of an art project I did with my granddaughters for Nana week. I bought them some used cowboy boots. I spray painted them a neutral color, then brought out the paints, pictures, words to cut out, beads and sparkles and let them be creative. Once done, we filled them…

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