Forgiveness

I Hate My Ex Husband and Can’t Stop

By Leslie Vernick | March 25, 2026 |

Morning friend, Emotions can be wonderful and terrible — sometimes at the same time. We experience the joy of love, beauty, gratitude, and wonder, and we feel the pain of rejection, betrayal, injustice, illness, and life being hard. When you experience difficult or unpleasant feelings like rage, shame, hurt, and hatred, what do you do with them? The first step…

How Does One Balance Mercy and Stern Boundaries with Difficult People Who You Have to Interact With?

By Leslie Vernick | December 25, 2024 |

Merry Christmas friend, I know for some of you this is a hard day, a hard season. You’re alone or with family who are fighting. But for a moment, I invite you to put that reality in the background and bring into focus what this season is truly about. God came into a dark, scary, sinful world to be with…

Isn’t Reconciliation God’s Will?

By Leslie Vernick | September 25, 2024 |

Morning friend, Today is webinar day, and it’s been full on preparing and practicing. In light of that and last week’s blog about the struggle around forgiveness and reconciliation, I thought I would repost a previous blog question from a husband who struggled to understand why reconciliation wouldn’t be best, especially if he is truly repentant. If you can relate…

Forgiveness and Reconciliation-What’s the Difference?

By Leslie Vernick | September 18, 2024 |

Morning friend, I’m in Austin, Texas this week for some training and it’s hot, hot, hot, and humid. I’m not used to the humidity after living in Arizona (my hair doesn’t like humidity either). But Austin has a very eclectic vibe, and I wish I had a little more time to explore.  If you haven’t already signed up, I’m giving…

Embracing the Belt of Truth: Navigating Love and Authenticity in the Month of Hearts

By LeAnne Parsons | February 14, 2024 |

Greetings friends! As we step into February, a month where hearts and love are so often celebrated, it’s essential to pause and reflect on the ‘belt of truth’ that girds our lives. For many women, this time of year can be bittersweet, tinged with challenges and struggles in relationships that may not mirror the fairy tale stories of love and…

Should I Forgive And Forget?

By Susan King | November 1, 2023 |

Hello, dear friends! We are entering a busy season. I pray that you are able to find God’s peace even in the midst of your circumstances. November is the perfect month to nurture a spirit of gratitude. I am thankful for this community that is so wise and loving. Today’s Question: Can you help? I maintain that we are to…

Do I Trust Him Again? He’s Doing Everything Right

By Leslie Vernick | October 18, 2023 |

Morning friend, Whew, we just finished our CONQUER membership invite for this season. The doors are closed for now, and we are all about welcoming and loving on our new members. I’m heading off to Haven House to partner with Lysa Terkeurst for her 3-day intensive retreat. It’s an honor to be part of her team there as our population…

He’s Ready To Get Help, Should I Move Home?

By Leslie Vernick | September 14, 2022 |

Morning friend, I had a great time at the American Association of Christian Counselors conference last week in Dallas. It was hard work and emotionally and physically draining but I sensed an openness and willingness to listen as I have not before. Perhaps it’s been all the recent news stories about how the church has covered up abuse of many…

You Do Have Choices

By Leslie Vernick | August 24, 2022 |

Morning friends, I have an exciting announcement. After almost a year in the works, it’s DONE. We have a brand-new website and I’m anxious for you to hop over and have a look. It’s still at leslievernick.com but is fresher, easier to navigate, and totally updated.  Since we are filling up our current classes quickly, we also opened some new…