Posts by Leslie Vernick
How Do I Help My Client Let Go?
Morning friend, I’ve been reading through the four gospels this year, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. I’ve been curiously watching Jesus freely express his emotions. He cried, laughed, got angry, felt uncertain of what to do next, felt stressed, tired, irritated, and kind of crabby (when he cursed the fig tree when it didn’t have…
Read MoreI Can’t Say Anything Right. Help
I am traveling this week, so I’d appreciate your prayers. Question: The reoccurring theme over the last 3 years in my marriage has been that I have failed to communicate in a proper way or have been misunderstood, to the point where my husband’s anger gets the best of him. I’m not allowed to ask…
Read MoreI Need Tools To Not React
Morning friend, I’m so thankful for this community. I love how you are interacting with one another, encouraging, supporting, and helping. We cannot do life all alone, and we do grow stronger together. Question: My husband is such a cunning man. He goes out of his way to portray me as a bad mom and…
Read MoreRebuilding A Broken Life
Morning friend, We had an amazing response to joining our CONQUER membership. It makes me sad that there are so many Christian women struggling in destructive and abusive marriages and glad that they have found a place to get solid, biblical information in a loving community to help them wisely navigate through their pain and…
Read MoreHow Do I Let Go of My Fantasy Husband Without Lowering My Standards?
Morning friend, I hope by now you are signed up for our webinar next week, “How Long Should You Keep Trying: And How Will You Know Changes Are Real?” An interesting question popped into my mailbox this week. It doesn’t have to do with a destructive marriage but is an important question, nonetheless. Question: How…
Read MoreI Don’t Trust Him But He Wants Me Home
Morning friend, Thanks for your prayers for my trip with my granddaughter to Paris. We had an amazing time and created precious memories together. I’m so glad I had this opportunity to be with her and get to know her heart more. Our CONQUER membership for Christian women in destructive marriages will be opening April…
Read MoreAm I Selfish for Stopping My Enabling Behaviors?
Morning friend, Next week I’m going to Paris with my granddaughter for her 13th birthday. Each of my granddaughters get to pick where they would like to go for this special milestone. I thought we’d better do this at 13 years old instead of 18 because by 18 they may not want to hang out…
Read MoreI Want To Change But I Don’t Know How
Morning friend, I’d love to give you all a challenge for the month of March. There are 31 days in March and 31 chapters in Proverbs. If you are lacking wisdom or struggling with toxic and destructive people, you will gain a wealth of wisdom from this book. Each day read one chapter. Read it out…
Read MoreIs It Serious Enough To Separate?
Morning friend, Walking in CORE strength, our 3-month coaching group, is now open. Classes start the week of March 13. We only offer this group coaching program twice a year so if you’re ready to take positive action to get healthier and stronger, please check this out. Today’s Question: My dilemma and internal struggle has…
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