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I Don’t Want to Lose My Marriage; What Should I Do?
Hello Friends! It’s August and I am enjoying the warmth and sunshine this month tends to bring! I have been out walking several miles daily in my neighborhood and can feel the difference in my body. When my environment is comfortable and pleasant, it is so much easier for me to care for myself well. The harsh winter months will…
Can Letting Him Go Be God’s Best?
Morning friend, Thanks for sharing your thoughts about the Kingdom of God. Here are some things I’ve been pondering. As I discern, I see the Kingdom of God consisting of unconditional love, truth, beauty, and justice. Like fireflies of warm summer nights, these elements shine heavenly light in dark places. Like a little yeast that permeates the whole loaf. Or…
How Do You Balance Mercy With Strong Boundaries?
Morning friends, I’ve been pondering a spiritual term I’d love to hear your thoughts on. As you read the Scriptures, how would you define the kingdom of God? For example, when Jesus tells us that the kingdom of God is near (Luke 17:20,21) what does that mean to you? When he says “seek the kingdom of God above all else…
I Need Help. He Won’t Change and Now My Sons Are Mimicking Him.
Morning friend, Alaska is a beautiful state. The weather was wonderful, with no rain, and fairly warm. I got to see whales, sea otters, sea lions, bears, and eagles. God’s creation is magnificent. I would never want to live there, but it’s an amazing place to visit. Here are some pictures for you to enjoy. Question: I have been in…
Do-Re-Mi Your Way to Healthier Relationships This Summer
Hello Friends, I recently had the joy of watching a live production of my favorite musical The Sound of Music, and it was an absolute delight. One moment that really stuck with me was the iconic lesson from the song “Do-Re-Mi”: “Let’s start at the very beginning, a very good place to start.” Just like learning to sing by beginning…
How Do I Talk to Others About My Husband’s Covert, Passive-Aggressive Narcissism?
Hello dear friends of LV&Co! I am grateful for all of you who continue to read, ask questions, and comment. I pray this July finds you well. As the summer weather and the political climate continues to heat up, join me in prayer for all to be safe and God’s will to prevail in our hearts. This month, I challenge…
Is It Wrong to Be Compassionate Towards Your Own Self?
Morning friend, I am on a cruise in Alaska speaking for the American Association of Christian Counselors. This Arizona girl hates the cold, but this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity so I bought some of those little foot and hand warmer packets and I will activate them to keep warm. I’ll send a picture for next week’s blog. Questions: I love…
What Are Acceptable Dealbreakers?
Morning Friend, We just finished our Try Me week of coaching around Moving Beyond Insecurity. It was a huge success, and many women shared amazing takeaways and life-changing insights. For the summer we are opening a brand new flexible coaching program for six weeks (starting the week of July 8) around the topic of Unhealthy People Pleasing. If you are…
Discernment vs. Indifference: Understanding Your Heart in Relationships
Hello Friends, As the summer months unfold, I find myself reflecting on the beauty and freedom this season brings. There’s a special joy in watching my grandchildren celebrate the end of the school year, their laughter and excitement filling the air with a sense of unbridled possibility. This sense of freedom, the ability to simply ‘be,’ is something I long…