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What Is a Godly Wife Supposed to Do?
I just returned from a busy week of work travel. I love meeting our CONQUER sisters when I travel and talking one-on-one with so many women who are freshly learning that they are co-equal image-bearers. That they are not less-than and their purpose is not to prop up dysfunctional, foolish, immature, or wicked men, even if that man is their…
I’m Gladly Divorced, Why Am I Hurt That He’s Moved On?
Morning friend, I’m traveling this week. I’ll be at a meeting in New Orleans and then speaking at Lysa Terkeurst’s event on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. I’d appreciate your prayers for my health, stamina, and safety as well as for healing for the women who attend the Haven House Intensive. It’s always a precious and sacred time. Today’s Question: My…
I Can Never Please Him No Matter What I Do
Happy January, friends! I hope you all had a safe and enjoyable holiday season. I was able to take a little time off to be with family and friends. The pace of life slowed down a little bit, but in some ways, it seemed busier than usual. Now that I am back to the normal routines of my life, I…
Breaking Free and Building Bridges
Happy New Year friends! As I stand on the threshold of a brand new year, my heart is brimming with hope and anticipation, it’s a time for reflection, renewal, and restarts. It’s a time to set intentions that will guide me through the days and months ahead “UNITED”. In a world that often feels divided, my aim for this year…
I Feel Guilty I Feel So Good That He’s Gone
Morning friend, Well, we’re into a brand new year. I always love turning the page in life. A new day, a new month, a new year. Each day, season, month, and year, is a fresh start. If we’re paying attention, we get to write how the main character of our story (us) shows up. What she does, says, thinks, believes.…
How Can I Heal When He’s Still Toxic and We Have Children to Parent?
Morning friend, I hope you had a blessed Christmas even if things at home were not that great. I’ve been struck this year in new ways on how God used two women, Mary and Elizabeth, in a patriarchal culture, to speak his truth. The feminine voice is important to God, even if it hasn’t been valued in your church or…
How to Heal Through a Painful Story
Morning friends, We are starting our six-month coaching group Empowered to Change in January. Most of us probably have spent some time thinking about a few ways we’d like the New Year to be different. Every year, people treat the new year like it’s a magical time where you can start to eat better, sleep better, exercise more, and achieve…
How Do I Keep Myself from Reverting to Old Habits?
Hello, Friends! The year is quickly coming to a close. This time of year, people tend to get busy with social events and holiday planning. I am going to ask you to pause and consider how you have grown this year. Are you happy with the person you are and the relationships you have with yourself and others? Maybe you…
Recognizing Mature Love in Your Marriage
Dear Beloved Reader, As we approach Christmas, my heart swells with gratitude and love, making this season one of my favorite times of the year. The gentle weaving of gratitude and the gift of pure love continually remind me to focus on what matters most as we close this year and prepare to embrace the next with great anticipation and…