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Is It Controlling To Check My Spouse’s Emails and Texts?
Morning friends: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month as I’m sure most of you know. I thought you might want to watch and share a new video I’ve done around Five Common Mistakes People Helpers Make When Working With Couples in Destructive Marriages. Please pray for me, friends. I’m feeling a bit…
I Have To Control Finances. Does That Mean I’m Abusive?
Morning friends, My new book, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, has been doing very well. Thanks for getting the word out to people who need to hear. Keep up the good buzz because word of mouth is the best way to market a new book. If you tweet, I can email you some key phrases to tweet if you’d like.…
I’ve Lost Myself In My Marriage. I Need Help
Morning friends, Would you pray for me? I am at Focus on the Family today (Monday). I’ll be taping in the morning, teaching counselors over lunch and taping in the afternoon. I will need lots of mental, physical and spiritual stamina. Be sure to watch the twelfth and last video in the…
Help, I Am Bitter and Angry
Morning friends, I just returned from attending the American Association of Christian Counselors Conference in Nashville. It was an amazing event with over 7,000 Christian leaders from all over the world. I spoke twice on my new book and had lots of opportunities to talk with people about it. It was an…
How Do I Know My Spouse’s Changes Are Genuine?
Happy Labor Day friends, My sister and her husband are visiting me this week. We’re heading to NYC on Wednesday and then to the beach for Thursday and Friday. It’s great to get a little down time. The following week I’m traveling to Nashville for the American Association of Christian Counselors Conference.…
Why Marital Counseling Isn’t Wise with Destructive/Abusive Marriages
Morning Friends, I hope you had a beautiful weekend. The weather here was just perfect yesterday. We’ve had so much rain and cloud cover lately, it was wonderful to have a sunny, low humidity day. I have a special surprise for you. Click here to listen to Abagail’s Dreams. It is a new song written by Nashville songwriter, Kim McLean,…
How Do You Confront Your Spouse With His Unacceptable Behaviors?
Morning friends, I’m in sunny California today visiting my daughter and family for her birthday. Yesterday we went to the zoo. My favorite moment was at the gorilla exhibit. We were watching a huge male gorilla walk around with a ratty piece of cloth stuck to his foot. We…
Why Do You Separate and When Do You Separate?
Evening friends, We’ve had some great discussion this week about whether or not a person in an emotionally destructive marriage has biblical grounds for separation. Instead of tackling a new question this week, I want to continue this dialogue because it is so crucial not only to individuals in destructive marriages,…