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How Do I Respond to My Pastor?
Morning friends, If you missed the RBC Ministries broadcast of Shepherding An Emotionally Destructive Marriage it’s not too late to listen AND receive a free copy of my book The Emotionally Destructive Marriage (must be requested before April 11), a download of an e-book I wrote on The Church’s Response to Emotionally Destructive Marriage as well as a free download…
Am I Being Destructive Also?
Morning Friends, My niece, Kristen and her husband Sam, are visiting us from Chicago. It’s been fun to hang out with them and have some fun. Pray for me as I head to Dallas, Texas tomorrow to speak at First Friday. It’s an outreach ministry to about 500-1,000 women that takes place in a movie theatre at lunch time on…
How Hard Do I Push My Husband For Change?
Happy Wednesday friends, At least I hope it’s happy for you. But if it’s not, can you embrace your pain without adding more suffering? You see, many of us run from pain, avoid it like the plague. And because we refuse to accept pain as a normal part of being a broken human being living with other broken human beings…
For Better or Worse – What Does That Mean?
Morning friends, Things are looking up with my new assistant Kim. She is techno savvy and hopefully will help me streamline things so I don’t keep dropping the balls that are in the air. Thanks for your prayers. I hope you got a chance to listen to the RBC Webinar on Destructive Marriages that I did with Chris Moles last…
Does God Want Me to Submit to Mistreatment According to 1 Peter 3?
Morning Friends, Today, Wednesday, March 5 is the day of the live webinar at RBC on The Emotionally Destructive Marriage. If you haven’t already signed up, it’s not too late. https://attendee.gotowebinar.com/register/4458076903969650690 Last week I received a response to an earlier blog post titled, “Lesson’s from Sarah’s Story”. The writer asked a question regarding that well-known passage in 1 Peter 3…
Is Letting Go Giving Up?
Hi friends, I’m going to be doing a free webinar next Wednesday, March 5 on The Emotionally Destructive Marriage. It’s sponsored by RBC (Radio Bible Class – Daily Bread) and I think it will be great. Even if you can’t be there live, sign up as you will get a link to listen to it afterwards. A pastor who works…
Five Indicators of An Evil and Wicked Heart
As Christian counselors, pastors and people helpers we often have a hard time discerning between an evil heart and an ordinary sinner who messes up, who isn’t perfect, and full of weakness and sin. I think one of the reasons we don’t “see” evil is because we find it so difficult to believe that evil individuals actually exist. We can’t…
What Do I Do With My Guilt?
Good morning friends, Thank you for your prayers. I think all of us on the East Coast are just about at the end of our patience with old man winter. I have shoveled more snow in the last 3 days than I have in the last 10 years. There is nowhere else to put it. I’m grateful I do not…