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Why We Must Never Forget Even When We Do Forgive
This post was originally published on ChristianCounseling.com. Working for over 30 years with couples attempting to recover from serious marital sin, I have often heard one of them say, “Why can’t you just forgive and forget?” or “You’re holding onto the past? Can’t we start with a clean slate?” or, “God says that we’re to forget the former things. Each…
Are You An Abuse Magnet?
Morning friends, I don’t want you to miss out on the free teleseminar or livestreaming event I’m doing with Chris Moles this Thursday night, August 7 at 8:30 pm ET. We will be tackling the question, “Can an Abuser Change – and How Does That Happen?” Chris is a Pastor and a Batterer Interventionist Specialist. Sign up here. I’m also…
How To Be a True Friend To Someone Going Through Marital Separation
Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers while speaking in San Diego at the American Association of Christian Counselors International Marriage Summit. I gave the keynote talk at Saturday’s luncheon on Three Critical Mistakes People Helpers Make Working with Couples in Destructive Marriage and as I spoke I could feel your prayers. Now continue to pray God uses the information these…
Critical Heart Changes For Successful Reconciliation
Morning Friends, I’m in San Diego getting ready to speak at the American Association of Christian Counselors Marriage America Conference. Please pray for me that I am able to communicate wisely with the counselors and pastors who are attending. I will be presenting all day Thursday at a preconference on Domestic Violence and then giving a keynote address for Saturday’s…
Did I Reconcile Prematurely?
Morning friends, I love all the Scripture verses you shared with one another this week. As we understand the whole counsel of God, don’t you see how much he cares for each one of us? Even when we make a mistake, God is there, teaching us to walk in his ways and to do the next right thing. Our pastor…
How Do I Respond To My Pastor?
Hi friends, Did you ever do something really stupid? Sunday was my day for dumb. I spoke at The Uncommon Woman Conference in Virginia sponsored by Excellent Living on Saturday. It was a wonderful event with over 400 women in attendance. After the event I ran to Target to pick up some contact lens solution as I had run out. …
Ten Truths Every Christian Needs to Know about Marriage
Hi Friends, Thanks for your prayers. A few of life’s unexpected turns kept me home instead of going to the beach, but tomorrow I’ll head there for one day of sunshine and sand before I fly to Chicago for my nephew’s wedding. It’s been fun to watch my nephew Clay and fiancé Julia mutually preparing for their big day and…