Happy New Year, Did you know that most people – about 92% do not keep their New Years Resolutions? Yep, and the top three resolutions are: 1. I’m going to exercise more. 2. I’m going to eat healthy food. 3. I’m going to save more money. Can you relate? Do you make New Years Resolutions and […]
What Biblical Grounds Are There For Divorce In The Face Of Abuse?
Morning friends, I hope you are registered for our webinar on Thursday on: Do People Use the Bible to keep you Confused, Stuck and Afraid about Your Destructive Relationship? To register click HERE. Today’s question illustrates the spiritual confusion that can take place. Question: What biblical grounds are there for divorce in the face of emotional, […]
I Can’t Let Go Of My Hurt And Anger
Morning friend, I am on vacation this week in San Diego. We needed a break from that hot Arizona weather. It’s been beautiful here, about 70 degrees but sunny. The cool breeze is just what our bodies needed. I will be caring for my three granddaughters all week as my daughter and son-in-law have decided […]
Is Divorce A Sin?
Morning friends, I am heading to Wheaton, Illinois on Friday night and Saturday to do a marriage conference at Wheaton College Church. On Friday morning, I’ll also be doing a 90-minute presentation to some members of the graduate department at Wheaton College on Three Mistakes People Helpers Make When Working in Destructive Marriages. Pray for […]
My Pastor Said I Cannot Divorce, Now What?
Morning friends, Thank you for your prayers. I am feeling them. There is still time to register for our CONQUER conference coming soon, next month. We have close to 400 women registered from all over the US and Canada. It will be an amazing time of seeing how important it is that women, Christian women, […]
I’m Angry and I Overeat! Please Help
Morning friends, I am heading down to Nashville next week for the American Association Of Christian Counselors Conference. I would deeply appreciate your prayers. I will be speaking next Wednesday afternoon for three hours on Counseling Strategies for the Emotionally Destructive Marriage. Thursday morning, Chris Moles and I are presenting a workshop to about 400 […]
Do I Have To Stay Married To An Abusive Spouse?
Morning friends, Over the last few weeks we’ve talked about our various “selves” and ways we can recognize the good parts and bad parts, the healthy parts and not so healthy parts, the parts that work “for us” and the parts that work against us. Last week I added the dimension of masculine and feminine […]
Am I Enabling My Husband?
Morning friends, I never made it to Branson. God had other plans. I was stuck at O’Hare Airport in Chicago for over 24 hours and ended up just flying back home without ever speaking. Thanks for your prayers but God had other plans for me. Be sure to catch the special articles and videos I’m […]
How To Be a True Friend To Someone Going Through Marital Separation
Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers while speaking in San Diego at the American Association of Christian Counselors International Marriage Summit. I gave the keynote talk at Saturday’s luncheon on Three Critical Mistakes People Helpers Make Working with Couples in Destructive Marriage and as I spoke I could feel your prayers. Now continue to pray […]
Why Do I Stay?
Good morning friends, I hope you had a wonderful Christmas. And if you didn’t, I hope you have let it go and surrendered it to Christ. Life is too short to brood over what didn’t happen. There is a freedom in learning how to let go of those negative emotions and if you need […]