welcome to your
Quick Start Guide
I’m so glad you are here and I want you to know that you’ve come to the right place!
I know the main question in your heart. “Is my marriage really destructive? Or just difficult or disappointing?”
As an experienced counselor, coach, and author of 7 books, including the national bestseller, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship and The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, I know that confusion, fear, and blame shifting are part of your life every day.
The helplessness, confusion, frustration, and hurt can be overwhelming at times. It can be tricky - and even risky - to navigate through it in a God-honoring way.
But I also know there are some simple, Biblical solutions that can give you clarity on what you are going through and what God sees.
Take a few minutes to save this page and dive into this Quick Start Guide to really understand your situation.
I’m excited for your growth!
Leslie Vernick & Co.
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ASSESSMENT QUIZ: How Healthy is Your Marriage?
Marriage isn’t just a legal contract, it is a living dynamic relationship. In the fog of the problem, it’s difficult to tell whether you are in a difficult marriage, a disappointing marriage, or a destructive marriage.
To help you figure that out, I’ve created a quick quiz for you to answer.
VIDEO: Is Your Marriage Disappointing? Difficult? Or Destructive?
What are the signs of a Destructive Marriage? What happens when you try to assert yourself? Do you feel small and insecure all the time? Here are the 5 warning signs.
ARTICLE: Where is God in My Destructive Marriage?
Despite what other well-meaning people tell you - God is the final word.
Here are three Biblical truths that God wants you to know about the pain you are feeling in your marriage.
VIDEO: What Does God Say About Abuse?
What is the difference between sin and oppression? Is it ever right? What is the purpose of a Godly leadership role in marriage? And what did Jesus say about being the sin of injustice? This video will go deep into what God actually sees as abuse that can be masked as "leadership"
VIDEO: Five Signs of a Destructive Marriage
What are the key signs that your marriage issues are more than normal? Where is the line between "normal hardships" and behavior that crosses the line into destruction and abuse? How about if you see the signs in yourself? Watch this video to find out.