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I know I’m not alone in struggling with unhealthy people pleasing. Even as a Christian counselor and coach, I’ve had to learn some valuable lessons the hard way.

Lessons about how important it is to speak up for yourself when you need to.

I realized that although I knew how to speak up, I didn’t open my mouth,
…all because I was afraid.

Afraid of making my friends angry with me.

Afraid of hurting people’s feelings.

Afraid of being rejected.

Afraid of looking like I was overreacting and judgmental.

Maybe you have felt this fear too. Maybe you too have paid a high price for being too nice.

If that is you, I have a special invitation to change that. Join me in the Moving Beyond People Pleasing Drop-In Coaching + Video Curriculum.

Interested? Keep reading below.

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This small group coaching program is the culmination of 25 years of private practice and hundreds of hours helping women understand their fears, find their voice, learn to speak up for themselves, and establish healthy boundaries, especially with others that might be destructive.

This small group coaching + video curriculum combination is just what you need if...

You regularly say YES when you really want to say NO - you might even be afraid to speak in your own home.

You over-function and act like it’s okay for others to under-function (but secretly resent it)

You fear conflict and walk on eggshells most days

You dread disapproval - even if it means doing things that degrade you.

You are tired of living for the approval of others - your spouse, your mom, your kids.

You feel manipulated and used but don’t know how to stop it.

You’ve lived so long for what others wanted you to be you’re not too sure who you are anymore.

COURSE DETAILS

You receive life-time access to this 13-video curriculum. Each video comes with a full written transcript and handout for you to take notes. Watch the video curriculum on your own time, coming prepared to your group coaching sessions to personally apply what you just learned:

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MODULE ONE: (Practiced in Weeks 1 & 2 of Live Zoom Group Coaching)
You receive lifetime access to this 13-video curriculum. Each video comes with a full written transcript and handout for you to take notes. Watch the video curriculum on your own time, coming prepared to your group coaching sessions to personally apply what you just learned.

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MODULE TWO: (Practiced in Weeks 2-4 of Live Zoom Group Coaching)
The videos in this module will help you discover who you are and how to become uniquely you instead of trying to be who other people want you to be. You will learn how to grow to be more the person God calls you to be, including stewarding wisely your resources of time, energy, money and talents. Leslie will show you how to have a conversation with those who you are currently in relationship with to let them know how you are changing so that your new assertiveness doesn’t come as a surprise.

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MODULE THREE: (Practiced in Weeks 4-6 of Live Zoom Group Coaching)
The videos in this module will help you understand the difference between a biblical peacemaker, peacekeeper, or peace-faker. Leslie will show you how to use your voice to be more assertive, resolve conflict, speak up for yourself, and how to set effective boundaries. You will also learn how to handle the disappointment, disapproval and anger of others when you start saying no and they aren’t happy.

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BONUS TEACHING:
When you’ve been a long-term unhealthy people pleaser, your trust has often been violated. In this bonus two-part video series, Leslie explains the various ways trust gets broken in a relationship and what it takes to rebuild and move beyond broken trust so that a relationship can be restored.

REMEMBER: You get LIFETIME ACCESS to the video course materials, Moving Beyond People Pleasing eBook, as well as the bonus video teaching on broken trust.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

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“The coaching group was extremely helpful, mostly because it confirmed that my behaviors and decisions were dictated by pleasing others and the fear that I could be rejected. A very simple example of a small change was in my profession. I am a teacher and am teaching a different grade level in middle school. When asked via email from a committee chair for volunteers for a new chairman and treasurer, I didn’t respond in my usual way. I politely declined and said that I would help in any way possible, but that I couldn’t take on another responsibility. I did not obsess over how the others would think of me. Not my responsibility because I know that I am doing the right thing for me.”

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