Difficult? Disappointing? Or destructive? What exactly is causing all the pain in your marriage?
Are you staying in the safety of confusion?
It's natural to feel confused at times - part of the plan God made for us to grow in faith.
Because here's the thing.
Confusion can also mask fear. Confusion is a convenient way to keep ourselves safe because we can't move forward until we are 100% SURE, right?
Your confusion is common. Your fear is normal. So I've created the perfect mini next step.
Something you can do right now to get clarity - without taking any big risk.
My new Quickstart guide is a one page FREE resource that will finally, FINALLY get you clarity on whether your marriage is difficult, disappointing or destructive.
It's easy, totally private and the perfect mini step for you to take right now to get clear and know how God feels about your situation.
There are 3 types of relationship problems that I help women deal with:
A difficult relationship is
one in which there are many external stressors pressing in on the relationship that make it challenging.
A disappointing relationship is one in which there are a letdown of expectations in a relationship. It's not what you thought it would be.
A destructive relationship is one in which the personhood of the other is regularly diminished, dismissed, deceived, disrespected and demeaned. In a destructive relationship, you don't only feel it's hard, you feel like you're dying inside.
But you start to wonder:
Ready to finally get clear?
Leslie Vernick is a popular speaker, author, and relationship coach. She is the author of seven books, including the best-selling, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship, and The Emotionally Destructive Marriage.
Leslie has been a featured guest on Focus on the Family Radio, Family Life Today with Denis Rainey, New Life Radio and Television with Steve Arterburn, and Moody Mid-Day Connection.