This week is vacation

Hi Everyone,

Today I am at Ocean City NJ enjoying the beauty of God's creation. My friend Barb has a beach house here that she graciously allows me to stay at for a few days each year. It's not been great weather but the ocean is so beautiful, whether sunny or cloudy.

As I packed up on Friday I didn't select a question to answer for today's blog. Sorry – I forgot. But I wanted you to know that next week we will be back to answering your questions. If you want to ask something about a relationship issue that makes you crazy, feel free to e-mail me at

My book edits were finished last week. This is a much needed rest See you all next week.


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