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How Can I Implement Consequences When My Husband Is Abusive?

By Leslie Vernick | July 10, 2019 |

Morning friends, It’s been Nana camp again for this week in July. And it’s been fun. We’re going horseback riding tomorrow but the kids have been having a great time on our backyard zip line. What kid wouldn’t? It’s even fun for the adults, although I will spare you the adult version. Here’s the kids having a ball. Thanks for…

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What Biblical Grounds Are There For Divorce In The Face Of Abuse?

By Leslie Vernick | May 16, 2018 |

Morning friends, I hope you are registered for our webinar on Thursday on: Do People Use the Bible to keep you Confused, Stuck and Afraid about Your Destructive Relationship? To register click HERE. Today’s question illustrates the spiritual confusion that can take place. Question: What biblical grounds are there for divorce in the face of emotional, financial, sometimes physical and…

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How Can My Counselor Get My Husband To Repent

By Leslie Vernick | April 4, 2018 |

Morning friends, Sheesh. Have you ever had your bedroom carpets replaced? Master bathroom ripped out and redone, whole house painted and baseboards removed and redone? Yep, that’s happening at my house and it feels a little overwhelming, actually like a disaster. This is phase two of our 20-year-old Arizona house renovation and I hope I live through it. Just kidding,…

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What Scripture Supports Reconciliation When Someone Is Genuinely Repentant

By Leslie Vernick | March 21, 2018 |

Morning friends, I’m heading off to Lynchburg today to present a webinar to people helpers on “Three Common Mistakes that People Helpers Make.” Pray that my words and teaching have an impact on those listening that will equip them to be better people helpers to women in destructive marriages. Question:  I did a Google search today looking for support for…

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Signs Of Danger Mean Time To Flee

By Leslie Vernick | August 23, 2017 |

Morning friends, I just had an amazing weekend in Lincoln, Nebraska at Lincoln Berean Church where I spoke on the topic of The Emotionally Destructive Relationship. It’s so encouraging to be at a church that not only gets it but is actively helping women, men and families to learn how to be safe and have healthier relationships. Your prayers were…

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Why Can’t I Let Go?

By Leslie Vernick | July 12, 2017 |

Morning friends, So good to be back with you this week. Thank you, Dawn, for your thoughtful and helpful posts on alignment. So important. When we are misaligned, our entire gait is off and we cannot walk in CORE strength or in God’s truth. I want to give you an early head’s up that my Three Month Walking in CORE…

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I’m Newlywed And He’s Destructive. I’ve Separated But Do I Try To Reconcile?

By Leslie Vernick | August 31, 2016 |

Morning sweet friends, What a week I’ve had. Chris Moles and I had an amazing time at The Village Church. Pastor Matt Chandler and their entire staff were extremely supportive of our work and wanted to know how they as a church could do better. I was very encouraged by their humility, affirmation, and support of how we can help…

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Should I Apologize To My Abusive Husband?

By Leslie Vernick | July 20, 2016 |

Morning friends, I am excited to let you know that we will be doing a 2 session Introduction to CORE Strength on Wednesday, August 10 and August 17. If you have always wanted to have some extra help in understanding yourself and how to get stronger, this would be the perfect introductory class. Also, we are giving away some amazing…

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What Do I Do When My Spouse Gives Me The Silent Treatment

By Leslie Vernick | July 13, 2016 |

Morning friends, I had a great visit with my sweet granddaughters. While with them I try to stay off social media so I give them lots of undivided attention. I’m back now and glad that many of you took the time to watch the video of Fred and Marie and shared your comments. Now if anyone knows of a similar…

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