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My Husband Doesn’t Speak To Me. Do I Have To Have Sex?

By Leslie Vernick | November 18, 2020 |

Morning friends, Went for another hike last weekend with friends. This time, someone knew where we were going and so all I had to do was follow. What a great illustration for us and Jesus. He knows where we are to go, what steps to take, what pitfalls and dangers are ahead. He shepherds the way. Others may think they…

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Do I Have To Wear Sexy Clothes To Meet My Husband’s Needs?

By Leslie Vernick | February 26, 2020 |

Morning friends, I survived pickleball camp. Four days of intensive training broke some bad habits and instilled some new ones. Yet, now that I’m back, I have more work to do. I have to drill and practice in order for my new habits to become a consistent part of my game. In the same way, real change in any area…

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Is Sex A Choice Or A Requirement?

By Leslie Vernick | November 20, 2019 |

Morning friends, I am returning home today from a much-needed vacation with little Internet and lots of downtimes. We took a leisurely river cruise down the Danube River starting in Budapest and ending in Nuremberg, Germany. I love history, especially WW2 history. There is so much to learn from the mistakes of the past if we will but listen and…

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Do I Have To Have Sex With My Husband?

By Leslie Vernick | June 5, 2019 |

Hi Friends, Wow, this has been a crazy week. We had an overwhelming response to our invitation for new CONQUER members. It only shows me that there are so many Christian women who are feeling stuck and afraid in destructive and abusive marriages.   Second, I’ve been doing Grandma camp for the last two weeks, watching our 3 granddaughters at…

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My Husband Makes Me Feel Like an Object

By Leslie Vernick | March 26, 2008 |

Question: I’ve been married for 25 years to an emotionally and verbally abusive man. I feel angry and bitter toward him for the way he treats me. Yet, he still expects me to be loving and affectionate with him, especially in bed. I can’t do it. What does God expect me to do? (Rita in MO) Answer: No one likes…

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