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The Hardest Kind of Love: When Staying or Leaving are Both Hard

By Leslie Vernick | May 20, 2026 |

Morning friend, I’m pondering a verse in 1 John 4:16: “God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them.” The Bible tells us that God is love — that is his essence, his being. Everything God does is in love, with love, by love. Yet if we’re honest, we don’t always feel…