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When Fixing Him Becomes Your Survival Strategy
Hello LV&Co friends! Recently, I went to the ballet with a friend. Each year, my local ballet company does a production where the dancers step into the role of choreographer to create original pieces that are performed as part of the program. As I watched, I found myself thinking about how much is happening beneath the surface. What looks fluid…
How Do I Stop My Unhealthy “Helping” When I Love the Attention I Get?
Morning friend, This is Christmas week. For some of you it’s a time for family gathering, gift giving, eating, caroling and remembering. For others it’s a day to get through as quickly as possible. You are alone (or feel alone). There are few or no gifts. It’s hard, no doubt. One of my favorite verses in the Bible reminds me…
Can I Say No Without Being Mean?
Morning friend, I’ve been reading A LOT this summer and I have another quote I’ve been niggling on that I’d love to share with you: “There is no commandment that says we have to be upset by the way other people treat us. The reason we are upset is because we have an emotional program (internal) that says if someone…
His Drinking Is Destroying Our Marriage. Help.
Morning friend, I’ve had an amazing trip in Italy staying in Assisi and finishing up in Rome. This was a bucket list trip with my sister, where we took time to “be still and know that He is God.” Each morning we sat in quiet stillness, walked in beauty slowly and thoughtfully, met the most amazing people, had profound spiritual…