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A Letter to Church Leaders About Emotional Abuse

By Leslie Vernick | February 19, 2025 |

Morning friend, I just finished speaking at the 2025 Restore Conference that was held to talk about church harm. It was incredible, and I thought that perhaps for this week, I would gift you with a letter I wrote a while back on behalf of a dear sister. She was being harmed by her church who told her she could…

How To Stop Feelings From Overpowering Wise Decisions

By Susan King | February 5, 2025 |

Hello Friends! Here in West Michigan, I find myself begrudging winter this time of year, as there is quite a bit of winter left in my future. Once the new year begins, I must intentionally resist the rush toward spring. I remind myself that winter has a purpose. There is no doubt, the midwestern winter season affects me. As I…

Forgiveness and Reconciliation-What’s the Difference?

By Leslie Vernick | September 18, 2024 |

Morning friend, I’m in Austin, Texas this week for some training and it’s hot, hot, hot, and humid. I’m not used to the humidity after living in Arizona (my hair doesn’t like humidity either). But Austin has a very eclectic vibe, and I wish I had a little more time to explore.  If you haven’t already signed up, I’m giving…

What Are The Definitions For Divorce?

By Leslie Vernick | August 18, 2021 |

Morning friend, I’m in Chicago. Appreciate your prayers for my step-mom. She is lucid and we’re grateful for the time we have to say our goodbyes and love on her. On another note, Lord willing I will be doing a live webinar (from Chicago) Thursday at Noon ET and 7:30 PM ET, on Four Lies That Christian Women Believe That…

What Do I Do When My Counselor Overrules My Thoughts?

By Leslie Vernick | October 30, 2019 |

Morning friends, I’ve said this before but it bears repeating. I love this community and the power of the group contributing to the question asked. When I write my response to someone’s question, I cannot possibly cover every possible angle in the amount of space I allot.  That’s why I ask you all to chime in on your perspectives. And…

How Do I Stop Second Guessing Myself

By Leslie Vernick | January 18, 2017 |

Morning friends, I love the sweet interactions you have with one another on this blog. I see how so many of you have grown and are functioning in CORE strength, reaching out to other sisters to help them along the way. Thank you, Dawn, for your guest posts and encouraging us in believing that God not only redeems us and…

How To Be a True Friend To Someone Going Through Marital Separation

By Leslie Vernick & Co. | July 23, 2014 |

Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers while speaking in San Diego at the American Association of Christian Counselors International Marriage Summit. I gave the keynote talk at Saturday’s luncheon on Three Critical Mistakes People Helpers Make Working with Couples in Destructive Marriage and as I spoke I could feel your prayers. Now continue to pray God uses the information these…

Controlling abuse verses reactive abuse

By Leslie Vernick | July 16, 2012 |

Morning friends, I’ve been writing all weekend for my new book on Emotionally Destructive Marriages and because of that, I did not write a new blog for this week. But I want to share a blog I wrote for American Association of Biblical Counselors, and much of the content will be included in my new book. I would love your…

Topic: Who has the Final Say?

By Leslie Vernick | June 20, 2011 |

Hi Everyone, I’ve been in Chicago this weekend for my niece’s wedding. I love to see two individuals in love join their hearts and lives together. What a blessing to be a part this special celebration. I danced with my 81 year old father – which was great fun. Look to my Facebook page to see some pictures which I…