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You Do Have Choices
Morning friends, I have an exciting announcement. After almost a year in the works, it’s DONE. We have a brand-new website and I’m anxious for you to hop over and have a look. It’s still at leslievernick.com but is fresher, easier to navigate, and totally updated. Since we are filling up our current classes quickly, we also opened some new…Read More
Is Pornography Considered Adultery?
Morning friend, I will be speaking at the Lighthouse Christian Church on October 23rd. If you’re local, come join me. I’d love to meet you. We’re talking about recognizing healthy and toxic relationships and how to heal from destructive ones. Today’s Question: Is viewing pornography and or masturbation biblical grounds for divorce? My husband and I reached out to a couple that are…Read More
What Do I Do With My Husbands Porn Habit
Morning friends, Could you all do me a favor? I want to do a webinar or e-book or similar on The Lies in Christian Marriages That Lead to Crazy Making. Here are a few examples: The man always has the final say because he’s the head Unconditional love means unconditional relationship Forgiving means forgetting and putting the past behind you…Read More
Five Indicators of An Evil and Wicked Heart
As Christian counselors, pastors and people helpers we often have a hard time discerning between an evil heart and an ordinary sinner who messes up, who isn’t perfect, and full of weakness and sin. I think one of the reasons we don’t “see” evil is because we find it so difficult to believe that evil individuals actually exist. We can’t…Read More
Ten (10) Steps Necessary to Heal a Marriage After Infidelity
Morning friends, This week I am in Round Top, Texas with some very special women I meet with each year for fun, prayer, reflection, refreshment and accountability. I was hoping for warm weather after barely making my flight out of Philadelphia Saturday morning but the cold weather blew down here too. Brrrrrrr Pray for me while I’m here. That I…Read More
I’ve Been Hit, Cheated On, And I Asked Him Those Three Questions. Now What?
Hi Friends, Please pray for me. I need to carve out more time for God, more time for solitude, more time for exercise, more time for quality writing and yet, my plate is full of wonderful opportunities that are hard to let go of or ignore. Pray I have wisdom to know what needs to go, so that I may…Read More
I’ve Lost Myself In My Marriage. I Need Help
Morning friends, Would you pray for me? I am at Focus on the Family today (Monday). I’ll be taping in the morning, teaching counselors over lunch and taping in the afternoon. I will need lots of mental, physical and spiritual stamina. Be sure to watch the twelfth and last video in the…Read More
What Scripture Supports Separation from a Destructive Spouse?
Morning friends, I hope you have been finding the weekly video’s that I’ve been posting on my home page helpful as you navigate through emotionally destructive marriages. This week I’m talking about misunderstandings on headship and submission that can lead to a mindset of entitlement and excusing abuse. I would appreciate your prayers as I always have more to do…Read More
Is It Controlling to Ask Someone to Stop Hurtful Behavior?
Morning friends, I hope you have been watching the new videos I’ve been posting each week on my home page. Are there any thoughts? Please leave your comments or questions on the YouTube response form. We’d love to hear whether they’re helpful and what topics you’d like to see me address in this format in…Read More