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His Map, Your Map: Two Different Journeys

By Leslie Vernick | September 23, 2026 |

Morning friend, Our CONQUER doors are open. We open our membership twice a year, so if you’ve been waiting to join, now is the time. Click here for more information. We had hundreds of women attend our workshop last week: Is He Changing or Just Pretending? There were lots of questions, lots of tears, lots of ah ha moments, and…

Are You Addicted To Hopium? Naive Hope Verses Certain Hope

By Susan King | May 14, 2025 |

Hello! Whether you are new to the LV&Co community or have been reading the blog for years, we appreciate you. May is mental health awareness month. What are you doing to care for your mental health? It is my desire that all of you grow and thrive in this community. Your wellbeing is important. I pray that you feel God’s…

Isn’t Reconciliation God’s Will?

By Leslie Vernick | September 25, 2024 |

Morning friend, Today is webinar day, and it’s been full on preparing and practicing. In light of that and last week’s blog about the struggle around forgiveness and reconciliation, I thought I would repost a previous blog question from a husband who struggled to understand why reconciliation wouldn’t be best, especially if he is truly repentant. If you can relate…

Topic: Help! A Woman is Caught in Pornography Adiction

By Leslie Vernick | April 16, 2012 |

Good Morning Friends, I just got back from a wonderful weekend speaking at the American Association of Christian Counselors Convention in Orlando, Florida. Thanks for all your prayers. Today I am scurrying to finish my taxes. This is one of the chores I always leave to the last minute. I never intend to, but it always happens. Every year I…

Topic: My husband’s a sex addict and chronic liar. How do I tell our mutual church friends why I’m divorcing him.

By Leslie Vernick | July 4, 2011 |

Happy Fourth of July Everyone, I hope you are enjoying your long weekend. I did. This has been one of the most relaxing summers I’ve had in a while. No deadlines looming and it’s a nice break. I’ve got some exciting news I want to share with you but am going to wait until the final details are ironed out.…