abusive relationship

Why Won’t He Give Me A Simple Yes Or No Answer?

By Leslie Vernick | March 5, 2025 |

Morning friend, I want to give you an exercise to try this week. Ask yourself what feelings you would like to feel. When I asked myself that question recently, I thought, “I’d love to feel more peace and calm, be more thankful, curious, and have loving, compassionate feelings.” In the past, I’ve asked myself what virtues I’d like to have,…

How Do I Let Go Of Resentment And Stay Well When He’s Still Destructive?

By Leslie Vernick | February 26, 2025 |

Morning friend, I’m grateful that so many of you found the letter to your pastor or church leader helpful. If you end up using it and get a response, please let me know how it was received. Not everyone has ears to hear or eyes to see. But by their response, you will learn what your next right choice might…

Breaking Free: Are You Really a Magnet for Abusive Men?

By LeAnne Parsons | January 8, 2025 |

Dear Beloved Reader,  As a coach here on Leslie’s team, my heart is to cultivate a space where every woman in our community feels seen, supported, and equipped for growth. Recently, we received a question from one of you that caused me to press pause and raise my hand to answer it. Why? Because of how deeply it speaks to…

What’s my next step?

By Leslie Vernick | February 28, 2018 |

Morning friends, This is one hectic week. Please pray for me that I am grounded and centered in His will as I scurry around trying to get everything I need to get done.   I thought this week’s question was an appropriate follow up to our discussion from last week.   Question: Your last blog post could be my story. I…