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Do I Have To Make Amends To My Abuser?

By Leslie Vernick | July 17, 2019 |

Morning friends, I am back in Phoenix for the week and boy oh boy is it hot. I forgot how hot it can get here. I can walk our dog for about 5 minutes and then we both are seeking shelter. She’s not used to it either. We both miss our long evening walks in the cool mountain air. But…

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My Husband Stole My Social Security Number. How Can I Stop Him?

By Leslie Vernick | December 6, 2017 |

Morning Friend, It’s hard to believe that we are near the end of 2017.  If you could make one change in yourself for 2018, one change that you would be most proud of, what would it be? This week’s question comes from a woman who isn’t seeing the change she needs to make quite yet. Let’s help her move from…

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I’ve Lost Myself In My Marriage

By Leslie Vernick | April 5, 2017 |

Morning friends, I just returned from a whirlwind weekend back in my old neighborhood in Pennsylvania where we held a shower and celebrated the upcoming marriage of the son of my dear friend. It was good to be back. It was wonderful to see our friends again but it was also a confirmation that Pennsylvania is no longer our home.…

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Men Are Also Victims Of Emotional Abuse

By Leslie Vernick | February 15, 2017 |

Morning Friends, Thanks for your prayers this weekend. They were much needed and appreciated. My time at Wheaton College was well received and the staff that attended were open to looking at the mistakes people helpers make when working with individuals and couples in destructive relationships. While I was speaking at Loving Well Marriage Weekend at Wheaton College Church a…

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How Do I Help A Friend Who Isn’t Strong Enough

By Leslie Vernick | November 16, 2016 |

Morning friends, The POD is gone. It was packed to the brim and is being transported to Arizona. It will arrive the Saturday after Thanksgiving. It is amazing how much stuff you can fit into an 8 x 8 x 16 foot box. Thankfully we had a wonderful neighbor who stopped by towards the end and bought many large items…

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My Husband Has HIV, And Lied To Me

By Leslie Vernick | October 19, 2016 |

Morning friends, Words cannot describe the amazing CONQUER CONFERENCE we had this past weekend. Over 600 women joined together to learn how to become the women God created them to be, both inside and out. In every way it was a God-breathed weekend and all of us felt the presence of God in that place. At the end, a woman…

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How Do I Stay Healthy In An Abusive Marriage

By Leslie Vernick | August 3, 2016 |

Morning friends, Today’s question is related to that process. A woman asks: Today’s Question: How do I stay healthy in an abusive marriage when no one will speak into my husband’s life? Answer: This is an important question and I want you to listen very carefully. First, it is very difficult to stay healthy in a destructive marriage if you…

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What Do I Do When My Spouse Gives Me The Silent Treatment

By Leslie Vernick | July 13, 2016 |

Morning friends, I had a great visit with my sweet granddaughters. While with them I try to stay off social media so I give them lots of undivided attention. I’m back now and glad that many of you took the time to watch the video of Fred and Marie and shared your comments. Now if anyone knows of a similar…

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Help, I’m Feeling Helpless About My Situation

By Leslie Vernick | June 8, 2016 |

Morning friends, Wow, we had an incredible response to the registration launch of our Live CONQUER Women’s Conference on October 14th & 15th. We’ve already had 120 women register and I hope you are one of them. If you haven’t had a chance to check it out. Click here for more information. I hope to see you there. It will…

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