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Topic: A Wife Can’t Trust, A Husband is Repentant.Now What?

By Leslie Vernick | August 22, 2011 |

Good evening friends, Whew, it’s been a whirlwind week of travel, counseling, coaching and writing. I attended Logos Bible Software boot camp last week to learn their software. We were treated so kindly by the entire Logos staff. I had the opportunity to visit with amazing women ministry leaders who wanted to study God’s word using this software. In the…

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Thigs you can do to get healing if you can’t afford a counselor or coach

By Leslie Vernick | August 15, 2011 |

Hi Friends, I’m heading out to Dallas, Texas to be a part of a women’s ministry training in Logos Bible software. I am so excited to learn how to use this amazing program. I have had it for years but not being very computer savvy, I struggle with figuring out how to use it. I am thankful for this opportunity…

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Topic: My husband’s a sex addict and chronic liar. How do I tell our mutual church friends why I’m divorcing him.

By Leslie Vernick | July 4, 2011 |

Happy Fourth of July Everyone, I hope you are enjoying your long weekend. I did. This has been one of the most relaxing summers I’ve had in a while. No deadlines looming and it’s a nice break. I’ve got some exciting news I want to share with you but am going to wait until the final details are ironed out.…

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My son found out his baby is not his. What should he do?

By Leslie Vernick | October 25, 2010 |

Dear Precious Friends, Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement and prayers last week. I definitely felt them. The Care Net banquet went very well and Women’s Anew in Ohio was spirit filled. Now this weekend I’m off again to another women’s retreat in Ohio with Grace Church. I’d deeply appreciate it if you kept me in…

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I’m having sinful fantasies when lovmaking with my husband. How do I stop?

By Leslie Vernick | August 30, 2010 |

Hello friends, I want to let you know of a free seminar I’m doing in the Allentown, PA area at Calvary Temple church on Saturday morning, October 16th. Doors open at 8am and I will be speaking from 9-12 (with breaks) on the very important topic The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It! Stopping It! Surviving It! Best of all, it…

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Do I have to give him another chance?

By Leslie Vernick | August 23, 2010 |

Blessings Everyone! Lately I have been deeply grieved by the depth of our own self-deception and how it so impacts our relationships with one another. Being a counselor you’d think I’d get used to it but I don’t. Sometimes I have to confront someone’s self-deception. Even after all these years, it always surprises me when an individual continues to prefer…

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How do I know if my spouse has really changed?

By Leslie Vernick | July 26, 2010 |

Monday July 26 I’m sitting in a hotel room in the Wisconsin Dells. My husband is here for a national volleyball tournament and he is off with his responsibilities. I’ve been reading a lot this summer and I want to recommend two great books for you. The first is Sarah’s Key by Tatiana de Rosnay. It’s a moving novel about…

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My wife tells me I don’t satisfy her sexually. I’m devestated.

By Leslie Vernick | July 19, 2010 |

Question: I have been married for eleven years to a woman who has been emotionally and verbally abusive to me when it comes to our sexual intimacy, particularly areas of my performance. I saved myself for the woman I married but she had plenty of experience before I even knew her. She no longer puts me down or compares me…

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How do I let go of my dream?

By Leslie Vernick | April 12, 2010 |

Thanks for your encouraging words about last week’s blog. Today’s question has to do with letting go. Question: I read your book, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship, and am working to grow and heal but there is something I can’t seem to get past. I met my husband (now ex-husband) in high school and we married young. We both had a…

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