Should I Require My Spouse to Do Things?

Morning friends, I’m excited about the great response we had to the live streaming event, Can Abusers Change, that Chris Moles and I did last week.  If you didn’t get a chance to watch, click here. I’m going to do some more live streaming in the future on various topics and would love to hear…

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Why We Must Never Forget Even When We Do Forgive

This post was originally published on ChristianCounseling.com. Working for over 30 years with couples attempting to recover from serious marital sin, I have often heard one of them say, “Why can’t you just forgive and forget?” or “You’re holding onto the past?  Can’t we start with a clean slate?” or, “God says that we’re to…

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Are You An Abuse Magnet?

Morning friends, I don’t want you to miss out on the free teleseminar or livestreaming event I’m doing with Chris Moles this Thursday night, August 7 at 8:30 pm ET.  We will be tackling the question, “Can an Abuser Change – and How Does That Happen?” Chris is a Pastor and a Batterer Interventionist Specialist. …

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Should I Use Secular Courts for Child Support?

Morning friends, I want to give you advance notice about a teleseminar and live-streaming event Chris Moles and I will be hosting next Thursday evening at 8:30 pm ET.  Chris is a pastor as well as a Batterer Intervention Specialist in West Virginia.  He works with abusive men who have been court ordered for treatment.…

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Critical Heart Changes For Successful Reconciliation

Morning Friends, I’m in San Diego getting ready to speak at the American Association of Christian Counselors Marriage America Conference.  Please pray for me that I am able to communicate wisely with the counselors and pastors who are attending.  I will be presenting all day Thursday at a preconference on Domestic Violence and then giving…

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Did I Reconcile Prematurely?

Morning friends, I love all the Scripture verses you shared with one another this week. As we understand the whole counsel of God, don’t you see how much he cares for each one of us? Even when we make a mistake, God is there, teaching us to walk in his ways and to do the…

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