Four Ways To Create Emotional Distance in a Destructive Relationship

Emotional Distance

Morning friends, I’m on my way to California to attend a seminar and meet my assistant Kim, for the very first time.  In the age of virtual, Kim has been managing the technical part of things since February from where she lives in California while I’m located in Pennsylvania.  This will be fun for us both – although […]

Should I Require My Spouse to Do Things?

Morning friends, I’m excited about the great response we had to the live streaming event, Can Abusers Change, that Chris Moles and I did last week.  If you didn’t get a chance to watch, click here. I’m going to do some more live streaming in the future on various topics and would love to hear […]

Are You An Abuse Magnet?

Morning friends, I don’t want you to miss out on the free teleseminar or livestreaming event I’m doing with Chris Moles this Thursday night, August 7 at 8:30 pm ET.  We will be tackling the question, “Can an Abuser Change – and How Does That Happen?” Chris is a Pastor and a Batterer Interventionist Specialist.  […]

Should I Use Secular Courts for Child Support?

Morning friends, I want to give you advance notice about a teleseminar and live-streaming event Chris Moles and I will be hosting next Thursday evening at 8:30 pm ET.  Chris is a pastor as well as a Batterer Intervention Specialist in West Virginia.  He works with abusive men who have been court ordered for treatment. […]

How To Be a True Friend To Someone Going Through Marital Separation

Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers while speaking in San Diego at the American Association of Christian Counselors International Marriage Summit.  I gave the keynote talk at Saturday’s luncheon on Three Critical Mistakes People Helpers Make Working with Couples in Destructive Marriage and as I spoke I could feel your prayers.  Now continue to pray […]

Critical Heart Changes For Successful Reconciliation

Morning Friends, I’m in San Diego getting ready to speak at the American Association of Christian Counselors Marriage America Conference.  Please pray for me that I am able to communicate wisely with the counselors and pastors who are attending.  I will be presenting all day Thursday at a preconference on Domestic Violence and then giving […]

Help! I’m a Peacefaker!

Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers about my time off.  It didn’t turn out exactly how I had planned but life rarely does.  God had other ideas and I stayed home most of the week, but had a wonderful time this past weekend at my nephew’s wedding. It is always refreshing to see love blossom […]