My Husband Refuses To Let Me Help My Mother

Zero Sum Game

Morning friends, Don’t forget to sign up for tonight’s (Wednesday, September 17th) free live streaming event, 7:30pm to 9:00 ET with my guest, family law attorney Maryann Modesti.  She and I will be discussing how to be more informed of your legal rights and responsibilities if you are considering separating from a destructive spouse.  There […]

Is Hitting Someone Ever Justified?

man physically abusing his girlfriend

Morning friends, Pray for me.  This weekend I’m speaking all day to Christian counselors, pastors and leaders in Kentucky on Domestic Violence on Saturday and then Saturday night speaking at a youth rally on Bullying and Relationships.  Pray that I’m able to fully share  all that God has put on my heart. Don’t forget our […]

How Do I Stay Distant Without Being Cold Hearted?

woman trapped

Morning friends: I am so excited to invite you to participate in my next FREE live-streaming seminar on Wednesday, September 17, from 7:30-9PM ET. Maryann Modesti Esquire is an attorney who specializes in family law in Pennsylvania. She and I will be talking about crucial legal issues that people in destructive marriages need to be […]

Four Ways To Create Emotional Distance in a Destructive Relationship

Emotional Distance

Morning friends, I’m on my way to California to attend a seminar and meet my assistant Kim, for the very first time.  In the age of virtual, Kim has been managing the technical part of things since February from where she lives in California while I’m located in Pennsylvania.  This will be fun for us both – although […]

Should I Require My Spouse to Do Things?

Morning friends, I’m excited about the great response we had to the live streaming event, Can Abusers Change, that Chris Moles and I did last week.  If you didn’t get a chance to watch, click here. I’m going to do some more live streaming in the future on various topics and would love to hear […]

Are You An Abuse Magnet?

Morning friends, I don’t want you to miss out on the free teleseminar or livestreaming event I’m doing with Chris Moles this Thursday night, August 7 at 8:30 pm ET.  We will be tackling the question, “Can an Abuser Change – and How Does That Happen?” Chris is a Pastor and a Batterer Interventionist Specialist.  […]

Should I Use Secular Courts for Child Support?

Morning friends, I want to give you advance notice about a teleseminar and live-streaming event Chris Moles and I will be hosting next Thursday evening at 8:30 pm ET.  Chris is a pastor as well as a Batterer Intervention Specialist in West Virginia.  He works with abusive men who have been court ordered for treatment. […]

How To Be a True Friend To Someone Going Through Marital Separation

Morning friends, Thanks for your prayers while speaking in San Diego at the American Association of Christian Counselors International Marriage Summit.  I gave the keynote talk at Saturday’s luncheon on Three Critical Mistakes People Helpers Make Working with Couples in Destructive Marriage and as I spoke I could feel your prayers.  Now continue to pray […]