Am I Wrong To Consider Porn Adultery?

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Morning friends, Are you merciful towards yourself? I bet even if you’re merciful towards others, you are hard on yourself – constantly beating yourself up for your shortcomings, flaws, mistakes, and failures. Being merciful towards yourself (or others for that matter) doesn’t mean you are self-indulgent or enabling of sinful behaviors and attitudes. But it […]

How Will I Know If I’m Ready To Date Again?

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Morning friends, I appreciate your feedback on incorporating some new topics into the blog next year. We’re going to start next year by talking about our “shadow” side and false self. I think it will be beneficial for you to understand this concept not only for your own emotional, spiritual and mental health but also […]

How Do I Handle My Friends Still Hanging Out With My Abusive Ex-Husband?

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Morning friends, I just returned from a wonderful weeklong work/rest trip to Aruba. I had the awesome privilege of speaking at New Life Church on Friday and Sunday. I also keynoted an all-day Saturday seminar for Family First Foundation of Aruba, an organization with a mission to strengthen families for a prosperous Aruba. There is […]

Are You Living by Faith or by Fear?

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Morning friends, I just got back from spending time with my three favorite little girls, Amaya, Leilani and Natalia.  They loved wearing Nana’s jewelry and learning to draw houses and trees. I’m heading out to Iowa this week for a women’s event.  Pray for the special anointing of the Holy Spirit. This event will be […]

What is Disrespect?

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Morning friends, This week I’m in sunny beautiful California.  Until tomorrow I’m hanging out in Monterey, right on the ocean.  This is one of the most beautiful places in the world and it has been good for my soul and spirit and body to be here.   There is something so restorative to being in God’s […]